3 Reasons Joke Silva, Olu Jacob Marriage Proves Side Chicks Won’t Stay With You in Old Age

Celebrity marriages worldwide are more likely to end in headlines rather than happy anniversaries. Still, the enduring union of Joke Silva and Olu Jacobs has proven otherwise as it emerges as a beacon of lasting commitment. 

Celebrating their 37th year together and Olu Jacobs’ recent 82nd birthday, this power couple now has celebrated an enduring partnership that defies the often fleeting nature of celebrity romances.

Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva, both legends of Nollywood, have navigated their shared life with grace and fortitude that is as commendable as their extensive acting careers.

Recently, the couple has faced one of their toughest challenges yet—Olu Jacobs’ battle with dementia. Despite the difficulties, Joke Silva remains steadfast by his side, proving that their vows are not just words to be lightly spoken but commitments to be lived by.

Their togetherness in love and marriage despite their challenges has made people question why their marriage has stood the test of time. According to the couple, here are some reasons why one should invest in their spouses rather than side chicks.

Their foundation of friendship and respect 

Joke Silva often credits the success of their marriage to the deep friendship and mutual respect they share. 

The couple met during rehearsals for a production of ‘Jero’s Metamorphosis’ at the National Theatre, where Jacobs, fresh from England, was set to play the lead role. Despite his late arrival and a somewhat audacious first impression where he boldly declared Silva as the standard of woman he’d marry, his charm and earnestness in rehearsals won her over. 

This marked the start of their journey together, which has blossomed into 37 years of marriage.

This foundational strength is crucial, as it provides a buffer against the inevitable storms of life. Unlike fleeting relationships, their enduring friendship facilitates continuous growth and mutual support, elements that are significantly lacking in relationships centered around momentary pleasures.

Their shared values and vision 

Over the decades, the couple has not only aligned their personal lives but also their professional endeavors. This shared vision has strengthened their bond, making them partners in every sense of the word. Side relationships, which often operate on the thrill of the moment, lack this profound level of alignment and commitment to common goals.

Navigating challenges together 

From the highs of career milestones to the lows of health battles, they have faced everything together. Joke’s candid sharing of their struggles with Olu’s dementia and how she stood by him.

Silva, in a heartfelt conversation with renowned media personality and actress Nancy Isime, opened up about the profound impact of Olu Jacobs’ dementia on their lives together.

Reflecting on their relationship’s evolution, Silva shared, “It hasn’t been easy. There was a moment of realization for me, accepting that the changes were real and that the person I married is, much of the time, no longer the same.”

She continued, “But when I think about who he was—when he was himself—he was an extraordinary father, an incredible husband, and essentially my best friend. “The husband I knew is no longer there for me, but this man that is here is someone I still love.”