6 ‘Truths’ They Told us About Success That are No Longer True

Growing up in Nigeria, many of us were raised with certain ‘truths’, things we believed without question because they came from elders, teachers, and society at large.

But times have changed. What worked (or seemed accurate) 15–20 years ago doesn’t always apply today. Some of the most frequently repeated advice have turned out to be myths that no longer accurately reflect Nigeria’s current economy, job market, or lifestyle.

In this article, we’ll break down six outdated beliefs Nigerians were told, why they don’t hold up anymore, and what you should do instead.

Whether you’re a young adult, graduate, job seeker, or just rethinking life choices, this will help you make decisions based on fact, not fear or outdated thinking. 

1. “Just Go to School, You’ll Get a Good Job”

This was probably the most common promise: Study hard, graduate, and a good job will be waiting for you.

However, in today’s Nigeria, thousands of graduates roam the streets without employment, not due to a lack of effort, but rather because of a saturated job market and limited access to opportunities.

What’s true now

Degrees alone don’t guarantee jobs. Skills, networking, and adaptability are more important. Learn something outside your certificate, tech, design, marketing, writing, and digital skills are in demand.

2. “Buy Land Early, That’s the Only Way to Be Rich”

While owning property is great, the myth that land is the only path to wealth is outdated. In reality, many people go broke trying to buy land too early, without a solid income or backup plan.

What’s true now

Build stable income streams before major investments. There are many other routes to wealth – entrepreneurship, tech, content creation, even remote work.

3. “Government Job is the Surest Security”

The dream of civil service used to mean security, pensions, and peace of mind. However, today, government jobs often mean delayed salaries, outdated systems, and limited career growth opportunities.

What’s true now

Private sector roles and entrepreneurship offer more earning potential, especially for young Nigerians with tech or digital skills.

4. “Marry Before 30 or You’re Late”

This pressure, especially on women, is still loud in many Nigerian homes. However, marriage doesn’t guarantee happiness, and rushing into it due to age expectations often leads to regret.

What’s true now

Marry when you’re emotionally and financially ready, not because society is counting down your age.

5. “If You Work Hard, You’ll Be Rich”

Hard work is essential, but in today’s economy, smart work matters more. Some of the hardest workers in Nigeria still live paycheck to paycheck.

What’s true now

Learning how to manage money, invest wisely, and diversify income is just as important as effort.

6. “You Can’t Make Money Doing What You Love”

Many were discouraged from pursuing creative paths such as music, writing, content creation, fashion, or sports. But times have changed.

What’s true now

Passion can pay if you treat it like a business. Content creators, YouTubers, designers, and musicians are thriving today, thanks to their global reach and digital platforms.

It’s okay to outgrow the things you were told, especially when those things no longer work for the life you want.

Questioning old ideas doesn’t mean disrespect; it means you’re paying attention. And in 2025, that’s one of the smartest things any Nigerian can do.